Tag Archives: Tsalagi Tradition

The Sins of the Fathers

When the phone rang 17 years ago, it was my niece on the phone, to whom I had not spoken in 18 years. She called to tell me that her mom had suffered an aneurysm in her brain and that … Continue reading

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The Counselor at the dinner table

If you know a family member, friend, or lover who is struggling with a diagnosis on the Asperger/Autism continuum, or has been abused in childhood, you probably have seen their symptoms and strategies to deal with post-traumatic stress. These adaptations … Continue reading

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The Water Horse Way

Honestly, I didn’t know what to do. Out of the blue came a Facebook friend request from someone I hadn’t seen in five years. Three years ago he agreed to meet me for a movie, Cloud Atlas, which illustrated most … Continue reading

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Taking Names

The indigenous practice of getting and being given new names after a transformation of character is ancient. The birth name no longer seems appropriate when the child’s growth and development moves in a different direction. We like to honor those … Continue reading

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On the edge of the abyss

Two dead sun dance trees. The moon’s infinity shines at night, while the light of consciousness illuminates the foreground. Two trees grow green out of the strange ground of white and blue flowers. A darkened white tipi stands waiting as … Continue reading

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Deep run the genes

The band at the Cold Springs Tavern, an old stage coach stop one hundred years ago, was billed as folk, rock, country, and blues.  Sounded interesting to our guests who remembered visiting the Tavern a few years ago, so we … Continue reading

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Coyote in the Dream World

I noticed the cat pulling the rug around in a room of the house and went to investigate.  A dog might do this, but a cat?  Not likely.  Looking into the room I saw Coyote, my 46 year-old nephew, looking … Continue reading

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Dad, I’m Gay!

That’s what my spirit son told me.  He had been unemployed for several months and was struggling with his marriage of five years.  He and his wife had been living with friends; they were essentially homeless.  The mid-life crisis had … Continue reading

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Ayahuasca Death

When I approached the young man across the circle, I introduced myself and told him how much he reminded me of a man about his age in the Santo Daime tradition. It was just a hop, skip and a jump … Continue reading

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Returning to Life through Santo Daime

My first experience of Finados or All Souls Day in the Santo Daime Tradition was yesterday. It started out in the normal pattern. We were dancing and singing in Portuguese led by our Brazilian brother and sister. The hymns were … Continue reading

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