Category Archives: Foster Children

The Goose Boy

The dream of threatening geese parents evoked a memory of an abandoned and neglected child, who was traumatized throughout his childhood. Resiliant, the child held onto life, surviving the abuse, but continually re-enacting it. He let me be his parent for a couple of years. He thought he could repair the damage done to him by the biological parents. Perhaps there was some healing, I want to think we did some good for one another. We certainly made each other conscious of our blind spots. That’s where the story begins, with the blinding attack of the furious geese. Continue reading

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Le Cri de Merlin

Marie-Louise von Franz compares Jung to the wizard Merlin in her book C. G. Jung: His Myth in Our Time (1998) originally published in 1975. What she has to say about Merlin is based on Emma Jung’s research regarding the … Continue reading

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Sexual Abuse in Childhood

My friend and colleague, the River Jaguar, asked me why I don’t write about my experience of feeling abandoned by my family, about being sexually molested by my parents as a child, and how it has affected me and my … Continue reading

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Merlin’s Foster Child

Healing family patterns of abuse can be very challenging without the cultural context like that of the ancient Celts, Native Americans, or other indigenous cultures. Young men are attracted to elders who can meet their needs for fathering. We can only teach what we have be able to acquire within our selves and that only when it is wanted. Continue reading

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